What's in a kiss?
Let me first start off by saying I want to keep this topic as clean and mature as possible. Living for 21 years I have dodged a few. A little while ago I was tired of dodging and lost the will to fight it. Going so long without it I had built up this grand idea of what it was. You hear people craving it like a drug, just waiting till they can get their next fix. I thought of it as something magical, something that felt like nothing else. It was purely placing my lips on another’s and moving them around. I had emotion in the kiss, I had feelings for the girl, this was special this is what made everything glow this is what set the world on fire, to have her be so close and hold her in my arms. That was the magical part. That was what is in a poet’s heart. The kiss was just a gate way to those feelings. To be needed and wanted, to feel excepted, to have another person care for your percents in this life is the beauty of this thing. I can only think that people miss this. They think that all these things lay in the kiss, but that is simply not true. If one places their lips on your hand do you get the same reaction, no. Is that not also your flesh? Do you not have nerves and feelings in your hand? You do, but their lips on your hand has little meaning compared to their lips on yours. A kiss, is but a kiss. A hug, is but a hug. The emotions that are transferred are substantially more. It is souls compacting, conversing, and letting each other know they are not alone.
posted by Judge of the Whetten's at 11:45 PM
10 Comments:
well I cant say much about kisses but i think it can be said that emotions are transfered through the actions we do. Hugs are definetley one of my favourite things here on campus. The fact that there are so many people around you who care and then there is just the comfort of a hug.
But anyway, I really think kisses are going to be as good as the people behind them want it to be, like you were saying the emotions behind it. But well I guess I will find out sooner or later (probably later^_^). Im sure it is going to be something special so I have no problem waiting for now.
Never had to worry about kisses. Don't know whether I should be proud of that or not, but I am. I guess.
All I can say is it's not worth all the hype. I say if you want to wait then wait, but if you don't then don't place the limits and requirements on it yourself and don't look down on those others who's are different.
Kisses are as wonderful as Judge describes if both people share mutual interest. Though, passion is something that needs to be carefully watched when loosed, I feel that kissing is all the hype. It is precious. It is worth waiting for.
Don't rush headlong into kissing. I think what Judge described is my favorite way to be kissed, sweetly with the guy pressing his lips to mine; not making out nor frenching or any of the other ways to kiss. If someone can hold their passion back enough to only lightly kiss, then that is a treasure of great value.
But, at the same time, I can see how kisses are misconstrued into something they are not. From what I hear about having sex, it is similar in that it's nothing like the hype nor like what you'd ever think. It's hard to find someone who can make something as simple as pressing your lips to theirs into something memorable and of worth.
Don't give up, and save up your kisses for the one who will be your one will find them as precious as your perception of kissing was before you had your first kiss.
I hear they are fun. I really can't say although some might say I have at least experience it.
I don't know. Just do what you want to do, as long as it is not bad.
can I just say that if the times are true for these comments our group really needs to sleep more! crazy people.
And can I also say that a kis on the hand is just as good as on the lips. Honestly, I'd much rather be with a guy that felt that way as well. Kising is an un-needed immature past-time sometimes.
hopefully no one is offended by that last blip.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/science/thekiss.shtml
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"Don't look down on those others who's are different."
I don't, and if you think I do then I'm sorry.
A kiss is a lovely trick designed by God. It sets you on fire and takes you up on the sky. It manifests love when words are insufficient...just be sure those lips will kiss only the ones who deserves it...
of course, a kiss from a parent is different from a kiss with an opposite gender. It is best experienced if the other party feels the same way...even if the kiss is just a "smack" (slight touch of your lips to his/hers), especially if that slight kiss is your first kiss...I wonder how it feels like though..^_^
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